Special Kids 5K Race- Autism Mini Album

Hey there friends, happy Monday. 

Recently I had the opportunity to experience a wonderful show

of support from a friend who ran a 5K for my son with Autism. 

My son was even able to run the last 100 yards or so with him. 

It was such a beautiful experience that I decided to take the photos and turn them 

into a min album for my son who I want to be able to really

remember that day with visuals of course. 

I used the April Kit from Creating Made Easy to create the album and I am in love.

I lost several friends when my son was diagnosed because instead of making

 excuses for how my son acted and people treated him, I no longer accepted those

 behaviors and it really made me realize I didn't have to accept shitty behavior from

people for myself either. 

If I was going to advocate for my Autistic son then I needed to show him, I do

not allow that treatment for myself either. I don't want him to think it's ok 

for people to treat him like garbage and he just has to take it. 

So for JD to do this, it meant so very much! The support I have found from

amazing people far outweighs the loss!

WE ARE VERY BLESSED!

Thank you JD!

No Blogs And Scrap n' Art News!

Hey friends, I know it's Friday and I have not blogged this week

which is so rare but honestly it's been so busy and I worked all week this week,

between that and the State Tournament for Archery coming up.

Plus some personal issues I haven't been up to creating extra, however I wanted

to share this:

http://scrapnart.com/authors/

I have joined Scrap n' Art magazine as an author (designer). 

And also due to circumstances out of my control, mostly

someone breaking my laptop and then the computer repair shop not

being able to fix it properly...I have a GoFundMe account set up.

Now please don't laugh...life's been topsy turvy this year

and I NEVER ask for help. I am so blessed that I had friends and a great boss

who helped me get the first money but now it's not really repairable.

So I am left to this...THANKFULLY no one has taunted me.

I also wanted to share a cool article on Facebook they posted about me...
It is on Dreamcatchers For Abused Children:
https://www.facebook.com/DreamcatcherforAbusedChildren/photos/a.10152283902567407.1073741838.265443527406/10152664527302407/

Check it out if you have time...thanks for always following
and sharing your lives!
Love, Pinky~
 

All About Love...And Autism...

Good morning friends, 

I have two VERY special project to share today that is so near and dear to my heart.

It's not often I get to combine my crafting with my life and right now

my life is all about my kids and my son's Autism. 

As we learn about his diagnosis and life that surrounds it, it is just what 

we are living now. When I saw this stamp set that Michelle created with 

Avocado Arts it was more than special to me!! 

It really is "All About Love".

My first card is this Autism Love card I created and it's definitely

all about Autism and support- Love Comes In All Shapes And Sizes

is an amazing sentiment and perfect for this card. 

I used copper and "cyan" inks (my son's favorite color) to 

stamp the puzzle pieces. I used CutCardstock to create the card itself. 

http://avocadoarts.blogspot.com/2014/01/all-about-love-and-so-much-more-with.html

I put my heart and soul into this month's projects-

This set is so versatile- you could really use it all the way across

the board from cards and scrapbook pages to mixed media.

I also created this more CAS Card but you know I had to mix

it up a little and pop some paper out of that typewriter!

And inside I used a coordinating heart. 

I just love this set!

Such a great owner Michelle is and always thinking of causes outside of the box-

I really would appreciate if you take the time to go and comment letting her know

how amazing this set is- right here

http://avocadoarts.blogspot.com/2014/01/all-about-love-and-so-much-more-with.html

It means a lot to me that Autism is in the public eye! :) 

See Beauty And Autism Through My Eyes

Yes you have a wonderful child full of talent and grace, they will go far and be amazing. 

Probably class president, the most popular kid in school, breezing through with ease.
I see you looking at me like I am weird and I see you look at my child like he is a brat or spoiled. 

I hear those comments you make, even if you make them sound nice. That's fine. 

I am happy that you have such an amazing life and great kids, truly I am. 

Maybe you could look at me and my child with less judgmental eyes if just for today.

 You don't know what we deal with every day. 

You don't see my child being made fun of every day, 

struggle with being lonely and struggle with their lack of communication skills.
You see a child who screams or "melts down" but you don't see
the invisible pain and lack of ability to convey emotions and thoughts. 
You don't think what it must be like to not be able to speak or get the
words to the tongue whenever you want. That is a blessing many take for granted. 
And no, it's not because I am a bad parent and if I was more 

like you than it would be fixed. No I am not spoiling my child and allowing him to act out. 

It is because my amazing and beautiful child has Autism. 

My child who is just as amazing as your child, only different. 

My child who will change the world one day- 
my child will one day find their voice and find their way. 

It might not be the same way your child does everything, 

it might not be quite as easy or quite as fancy, 

we might not skate through with all the awards, 

but it will be BEAUTIFUL and a journey worthwhile. 

Sometimes the most beautiful butterfly is hidden in a 

cocoon that no one notices until it spreads it's wings. 
Sitting there silent in a darkened world waiting to fly. 

Love more, judge less, respect our journey-

 remember your looks and comments do hurt, even the strongest of us. 

As I sit committed to holding the hand of my incredible child and

I see the pain they carry and bear every single day.

I will cheer on your child and respect your amazing parenting skills,

 I will not feel "less than" or ashamed of my child or my life. 
I will admire your children and your blessed situation, as we are ALL blessed. 

I will stand proud and know in my heart that it takes ALL KINDS

to make the world go around. Not just the amazing so called "normal" people,

but the incredible emerging people who are different and think in other ways.

Today is my birthday and I thought that I would share my personal 
feelings on how I am perceived and judged. Not with hate or anger
but with more of a sad and heavy heart today. 

Have a beautiful day my friends.